Whenever their is a relationship breakdown and the partners of that relationship have children then it is always the children who suffer the most. This is especially so if the parents of the children cannot reach an amicable solution as to what should happen to the children in turn of visitation rights and custody rights. If that solution cannot be found then both parties will need to hire a good child custody lawyer to sort the issues out between them and make sure that it is the children who are protected most from the hurt.